Showing posts with label power. Show all posts
Showing posts with label power. Show all posts

Sunday, July 1, 2012

Sick of Challenges in Life?...Read this!

Have you ever played video games? 

If no, get your hands on one today. Play around for a while. And then come back to this article. 

And if you already have...read on! 

The Challenge Factor in Life...

 

Wouldn't it be great if life was simple and straight? No challenges, no hassles. Would you like that?
Do you feel sick of the daily challenges of your life? Do you feel that they are sucking your energy slowly
In a video game, every adventure, roadblock, challenge and obstacle is a source of pleasure. As you pass each stage in a game, you feel proud and powerful. 
A similar feeling can be had when playing chess. The game is full of challenges but somehow it's fun. Don't like chess? Alright..take ANY other game you like. 
Games are designed in a way that they are naturally challenging. 
You love them  
Then what seems to be the issue with the challenges you face in your life? 
Here's the key: there are only two ways to live your life. You can either blame the universe for keeping you deprived of the good things in life, and curse everything that happens around you, including your challenges (of course!) OR, you can choose to live all this as an adventure, just like you would in an adventure game. 
Hellen Keller, a terrific human being who was unfortunately (well, not really) blind, mute and deaf (yes, really), said:
                        "Life is either a daring adventure or nothing".
What is your problem then?
Here's what you need to do right away. 
Bless those challenges. Bless those moments which have shown you the hardest time of your life. They are the ones which make you stronger from inside. They awaken within you the sleeping giant who would never otherwise awaken, no matter what. 
Enough challenges awaken something very powerful inside you. Whether it's a video game or life itself....there comes a time when you find yourself saying:
"ENOUGH! I'll take it no more..." 
Mark this moment. When you reach this magical moment, know that it is the beginning point of all success in life...also referred to as "Burning Desire" by Sir Napoleon Hill in his legendary book 'Think and Grow Rich'.
Being sick of hardships is not a solution. You are much more capable than that. Overall, human beings are amazing creatures. Being a human, you carry infinite capabilities inside us. However,  they have been very secretively hidden inside us by our creator. Unless stimulated enough, they keep on lying dormant. Challenges, hardships, embarrassing experiences, bad situations - all act as stimulants.
Go back and see the challenges you have faced so far in your life. You will notice a very peculiar thing about them. Each challenge left you strengthened and more powerful even if it seemed like it hurt you on a material level. 
This is an indication by mother nature that material level is only the surface level. Being attached to it is like clinging to an ocean wave. You can never be sure if you have it in your total control
However, the powers lying dormant inside you are permanent and powerful. In a constantly changing world where everything is unpredictable, only a human being who has discovered these powers and the strength they give can stand with courage and confidence.  
Here's a very simple act of gaining power right now - "Accept your daily challenges as gifts. Thank the universe for choosing you to be the one to discover your hidden potential as a human being."
Ask yourself the following questions whenever you face an obstacle: 
"What is not perfect yet?"
"What do I really want out of this situation?"
"How can I turn this around in my favour?"
"What can I learn from this situation?"
"In what ways does this situation is giving me more strength and stability?"    
Insist on the answers. Your mind will give them to you sooner or later. 
Do the above little but mind-blowing exercises each day of your life and see yourself gaining more power with every passing moment. 


Monday, August 16, 2010

Finally, the secrets revealed.....

Hi,

I have a good news for you. The wait is over.

My book 'The Tao of Confidence' is out already and selling like a hot cake. I got just over a hundred emails in just one day from the readers (that was yesterday), and still pouring in. I'm really glad the book is being loved by so many people.

If you haven't got the book yet and would like to do it now...just google it and you'll get a huge list of places you can buy it from. The publisher is Pustak Mahal, India.

I thank all of you for making it a big hit!

Love,

Aery

P.S. My next book would be a delightful surprise for my male readers.

Friday, February 23, 2007

Refocusing after setbacks

How many times have you started a diet, a new way of thinking, or tried something new and then a setback occurs and you just go back to the way you were?

Don't worry, you are not the only one!

Setbacks and difficulties occur all of the time - they are a natural activity of life.

There are two ways of facing difficulties.

You either change or alter the difficulty or you can alter yourself to be able to deal with it.

Deal with difficulties correctly and it will enhance your confidence, deal with them incorrectly and they can do some serious damage to your self worth.

Your response to issues and difficulties

When you are faced with any setback your ability to deal with it can be turned around into a position of strength by asking yourself positive empowering questions.

There is an unwritten rule that says:

Ask your mind a stupid question and you will get a stupid answer!

So, if after setback you ask yourself something like

"Why does this always happen to me, I never have any luck?"

Your mind will probably come out with:

"Because you are useless and good things do not happen to you!"

Sound familiar?

Instead, if you ask yourself a positive empowering question like:

"What did I learn from this setback for next time?"

Your mind will kick into solution mode and help.


Here are some rules and things to think about when setbacks do occur:

* Acknowledge that it has happened. Don't hide from it. These things happen. So what?
* What positive empowering questions can you ask yourself?


What is good about this situation?
How can I make the most of this situation?
What can I learn from it?
What are the facts about this problem?
How can we make it a successful outcome?



* Acknowledge that setbacks occur to everyone and you are not being singled out.
* View them as a challenge to overcome rather than an issue or problem


Think about the negative dis-empowering thoughts that you think on a regular basis after a setback.

What new empowering questions could you ask yourself to give some better answers!

Write these down now and make them a habit.